Help with your goals

January 2, 2022

Written By

Tabitha Dumas

Did you know my purpose is helping YOU live your purpose? 

We are all born with great purpose. There was a time in my life when the only thing standing in my way was ME. Do you know what’s holding you back from the calling you have on your life??

Whether you’re a stay-at-home mom, semi-retired, a business owner, a caretaker, managing a community garden…many of us have the same issues holding us back, from messy closets that mean we start the day with a negative attitude to overloaded schedules to a lack of confidence in self-promotion.

My great joy is helping you break down barriers to purpose.

Besides 25-plus years of working with women in ministry, small business, non-profits, direct sales and more, I’m drawing from 15 years of my blogging history to bring you inspiration, tools and encouragement for your journey. I’ll keep adding to it over time. Please let me know if there’s anything missing! I’d be honored if something here can help with your goals!

Purpose & Vision

Of course everything comes back to having a vision for your life, which starts with choosing a one word for your year (mine is “cultivate” and I hope this post helps cultivate purpose in your life!) or a life word (mine is ELEVATE). I’m a huge fan of vision boards any time of the year and have tons of resources and worksheets here.

Another main component to starting off is to know your Identity. Addressing mine helped me overcome anxiety and is still my go-to when anxiety threatens to creep back in. If you haven’t spent much time on it, I highly recommend it.

It might be time for a purpose reboot! Treat it like a retreat.

This one I can’t recommend enough: practicing gratitude.

Another critical component is journaling so you can write out your thoughts and keep track of connections and insights.

I always have journals in my booth and in my home office if you need one!


Having a creative practice means you can keep your brain stimulated and exercise your creative muscles on a regular basis! Read about starting a creative practice here.


Without decluttering, it’s nearly impossible to be effective and stress free. Plus knowing what you have and being able to easily put your hands on it makes all of life feel more manageable.

Declutter your closet

Kickstart To Clutter Free ecourse from Kathi Lipp

The Konmari Method

Our decluttering process with pictures

Read my own decluttering tips after years of implementing the above at this post

If you’re willing to put some work in and take action, let’s schedule a step into your purpose consultation HERE.

Closet & Wardrobe

worry free wardrobe

Steps to simplify your wardrobe


A lack of confidence holds any person back, no matter their occupation or status! Any time you can boost your confidence, you’re growing.

I’ve consolidated quite a bit into: Tips to appear more confident

Wanna practice?? Keep doing scary things. I guarantee you, it gets easier! The follow-up to that post? Do it afraid

It might be time to “put yourself out there,” which just means getting into the world and inviting people into yours as well as being honest about what you want. Read more: Why put yourself out there

One of my favorite ways to boost confidence?? Hosting workshops! I am so passionate about helping women host or facilitate workshops, I have a whole website dedicated to it you are welcome to explore: Workshops To You


Please know…you are already an influencer! Own it, lady!

Time-tested steps you can take to expand your influence

I’d be willing to bet…it’s time to tell your story. My friend Anne did here.

Online Image

If you’ve considered blogging, I’ve been at it since 2007! Here’s a good roundup of my tools and tips: Tab’s Tips for Beginner Bloggers which includes a quiz to help you decide if blogging is right for you.


Receive my monthly emails as well as my latest happenings and events. It’s all very comfy and gracious. Sign up for my Purposeful Faith Life Style emails here

On Facebook? Join the 225+ purposeful women in my private Facebook group: Request to join here.

And if we’re friends in real life, I want to also offer you hands-on help with whatever you’re working on. Just reach out and let’s start taking steps.

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